It’s been a great year! I continue to focus on being, “Happy and present-one day at a time,” but I have to admit that I’ve been struggling lately. I’ve been feeling stressed out, overwhelmed, short of patience and oh, so tired. I know these feelings are not uncommon this time of year, but I can’t remember feeling this way with such a constant intensity.
I feel as if life is on VOLUME TEN!
Perhaps it’s because my hard work has paid off and, by comparison to my normally calm, grounded daily routines, this time of year now seems off the charts in every way.
No matter the reason, I’ve been working to get back on track to Peace, Love and Presence!
Here are some things that I’ve found helpful and that I hope can lighten your load this holiday season:
- Realize that many people share similar feelings and that this time of year can bring a wide range of emotions for a variety of reasons, like grief, depression and anxiety, to name a few.
- Understand that your feelings are temporary and most likely will pass after the holidays are over. Around this time last year I wrote about how I was feeling some of the same feelings!
- Share your feelings with those closest to you and ask for help when you need it. Chances are pretty good that your loved ones have noticed that you’ve been a little short of patience. I’m sure mine have!
- Practice self compassion and self care-you know the drill! If not, read my post about self compassion here: https://beallthere.net/2016/02/14/self-love/ and read about my self care routine here: https://beallthere.net/2015/08/22/funkytown-just-passing-through/
- Be present. Certainly honor your past and dream about your future, but try not to dwell on them, especially this time of year. It feels good to let go of some of the sadness of what was and the worry of what will be. It will all work out, it always does. You can read what I wrote about Christmas Presence here: https://beallthere.net/2015/12/15/christmas-presence/
- Acknowledge your feelings, including any physical symptoms. I’ve been experiencing some aches and pains, and, when I went to the doctor last week and she asked if I was under any stress, I denied it because I actually was unaware that my stress was causing physical symptoms. Luckily all is well and I’m feeling much better.
- Be quiet. When feeling overwhelmed, it helps to turn down the volume. Turn off the television, unplug, and dim the lights. It can have a calming effect.
- Take time off if you can. Carve out some time away from your desk or your computer to unwind and recharge.
- Have a cup of tea. Since it’s meant to be sipped slowly, it will help slow down your pace.
- Be playful. My daughter’s dog, Ellie makes me laugh and smile every day!
Wishing you Peace, Love and Presence this Holiday Season, and always!
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Thank you for your support Kevin, even through my grumpiness. XOX
Yikes!!!!!! I’m with you Jeanne. Even wonderful things can be stressful. I have to constantly remind myself I don’t have to do EVERYTHING, things don’t have to be perfect, especially this time of year. I am exhausted just thinking of Christmas Day!!!! I’ve come to realize stresses in my life manage to attack my neck and low back…..been going to PT and it is helping a lot. Massage and exercise is the key for me. BLESS YOU for your posts, and I will read this one over again!!! Love you, and wish all the Finnan’s a peaceful, fun, beautiful Christmas. Ok, so to add to our stresses, I would like to get together in the next couple of weeks………………Miss you.
Seeing you would never add to the stress, it would relieve it!!! Merry Christmas and I’ll see you soon. XOX